So, apparently I write a new post on this blog every five months whether I need to or not.
When I restarted this blog I was moving to the Bay area in June of ’14 Now it’s almost May ’16, and I’m going to move back up North in September. Lots of movement, lots of changes and lots of hecticity on some levels but mostly leveling out.
This time of actually re-entering the world since my wife Linda’s death in Jan.’14, has been very rich and discomfiting, things are always like that when I have to face uncomfortable aspects of myself. My childishness, my yearning, my unwillingness, my being stuck; and the dichotomy that exists in that I also contain the exact opposites of those aspects of my Self. The serious grown-up who accepts his age and place in the culture and is comfortable in his own skin and sees those yearnings as the old habit patterns of a lost boy, the Zen practitioner who is sometimes so willing that he feels almost completely un-moored and drifting in concert with That Which Is.
All those seeming opposites just part of the whole. All is one. All is different.
I’m going to get back in the habit of writing for my own pleasure and practice the Way of Being Teachable. There are so many things and people in my life that teach me constantly, I just have to remember that a good student can see connections that hint at meaning; that point one in a direction where there is no solution, no closure, no surety, no “I’ve got it.”; but rather to “That’s interesting.”
An old friend told me she had read all of my posts on this blog, so I reread them myself and was surprised what a shallow self-involved twit I can be, but also somewhat relieved to see that I was trying to Reach Out from that Self. And that’s OK.
I was sitting in meditation in the little Meditation Hall
At Kanzeon Home, where I live; and offering my practice
For the benefit of all beings because
I don’t know what else to do.
Everyone has to be somewhere, and
Everyone has to be doing something.
Glad to see you back posting. I missed reading your ,nattering, I think you called it. Hope all is well.
Thanks Kevin. Soon I’ll be close enough so your only a day away; look out!
Where are you going to land?
Helmut. Your writing is beautiful. So passionate and so deep. I am not at all surprised, just very pleased to know this about you….
Thank you Sherry, as always you are being generous and kind. It was good to see and HEAR you today. Sometimes when we’re in the flow we feel we’re heading towards some drain, but in reality we’re always heading for the Great Ocean. It’s all do-able:)
What’s all this about being ” a serious grownup”?? Is it contagious?
Why wasn’t I warned?